"Woman In Love"

             I have this thought that keeps spinning inside my head; Life is full of absurdities, it is inescapable and inevitable. Whenever we get wrong, we learn. Whenever we learn, we ought to have the application to our lives and from there we GROW.

             As a woman, one of the most painful suffering that a woman like me could have is a heartbreak. I cannot speak for myself, it's just that when a woman has a heartache, her whole world suddenly stops. She may have friends to uplift her spirit but the pain doesn't go away that easily. Women are very fragile and sensitive which most men do not understand. And as I go through the journey of my life this is what I learned: You cannot please everybody. They will leave if they have to leave. You cannot own a person just because you love them so much. That's the absurd truth about life. We have to accept everything that might hurt us because that's the nature of living. If you go against that will, you'll end up suffering and enduring the scars that this life brought you. Remember, wounds heal but scars don't. They will remind you of people who and situations when do they deserve your love, trust and loyalty.

             Being a man is hard but being a woman is harder. Take the challenge: Bear a child, sacrifice your youth and happiness for your family, sacrifice for the man you love, understand the needs and wants of your parents, give up those chocolates for your siblings. Tough eh? God is just really great for making us women stronger enough to surpass all these challenges.Our moral obligation in life is to help other people, of you can't help, well at least do not hurt them. That goes to us women who have been always a victim of love. Even if we are hurt for a million times because of love, we don't stop loving--another hurtful truth. You can take the fact that a typical woman hopes for a happy ever after with her prince charming in a castle. This mindset of a woman was developed because of too much love story with happy endings. But real life doesn't have happy endings. It is filled with triumphs and failures that will blend and balance your way of dealing with life. It is you who will write your story, it is you who will decide for yourself. You might hear unpleasant or fine-sounding words from them but at the end of the day it is you who will choose to where you are going.
Live, Love and Laugh. That's how a true and a vulnerable woman should do it. ;)